Testimony

I was recently asked in an email to tell this person my testimony of how I came to know the Lord. Having just typed it up, I realize it is a good thing to put here on my blog too...so here it goes...

My relationship with the Lord began when I was a child, although I did not accept Christ as my Savior until I was 13. I grew up in a home where my parents brought us to church every Sunday and to Sunday school when we were too young for regular church. It is funny, but some of my earliest memories of childhood are when I was young sitting around in the circle of kids at Sunday school and singing 'Jesus Loves Me.' Looking back on that now, it is quite special and I see how Christ was already at work. :) Although my family went to church and both my parents loved the Lord, the home situation I grew up in was not the best. My parents fought constantly with one another. I would oftentimes cry myself to sleep and wouldn't understand why my parents would fight with one another. Sometimes I would ask God for new parents because I did not feel like mine loved me as they were so busy arguing with one another. God was always so very close, and I know that on those nights He was right there comforting me and working in my little heart.

When I was 8, for Easter, my sisters and I each received our very own Bible. It was a Precious Moments bible and I loved looking at the drawn photos inside. After a few weeks of looking just at the pictures I decided I should start reading it. So I did. Every night I would read several chapters. The chaos between my mom and dad continued, my grandma moved in with us as she had lymphoma and my mom began taking care of her. Eventually, my parents filed for divorce. As time passed, I continued reading but was slowly becoming a very hurt person...angry at my mom for having grandma move in, angry that mom filed for divorce, angry at my dad for yelling at my mom, and angry at my grandma for sucking away all my mom's time. I think I was mostly jealous for affection from one of my parents. But somehow, during that time period, I became most resentful of my grandma who I had loved so very much. I began pushing people away because I was so hurt. Eventually, my grandma passed away because of the cancer. I had in the months leading up to her death, pushed her away the most, making her feel she was an imposition, most likely. I did not intend on this to happen but it was my reaction to being hurt, and confused, and perhaps not even understanding what cancer was and how serious it also was. So, my grandma passed away when I was 11 and in the months prior, I do not feel like I loved her well. I held enormous guilt in my little heart and mind. My grandma had been there for me throughout the divorce. She taught me to draw well and paint, and I remember many special memories with her but somehow those memories grew dim and I wanted little to do with her.

From the time I was 11, my sisters and I would attend summer camp at a Christian youth center, at Camp Geneva and Cran Hill Ranch. I continued learning about Jesus and things were slowly soaking in. I especially was learning about forgiveness and that God still loved me despite how I had been so uncaring to my very ill grandmother. I realized that God did not want me to be angry, or bitter, or resentful, but to love people fully and deeply, even when I was hurting. I began to understand how Christ had been hurt by those who were closest to Him but it did not affect His love for them. Slowly, the words I had been reading in my Bible since I was 8 years old were all beginning to make good sense to me and I began to understand who Christ was in a new and real way. But somehow, I felt he couldn't love me...I felt like how could God love me when I hurt my grandma so very much? I felt very much unlovable. Yet, I continued reading my Bible, attending camps, and going to church and youth group.

I don't quite remember how or why, or what caused me to read this particular book, but when I was 13, I began reading this book about Discovering God's Will for your Life. I don't remember if that is the title of the book or not, but for some reason, that book landed its way in my lap. I was fascinated by it because the author wrote about how our lives have purpose and meaning and God had great plans for each one of us. I must have thought at the time, that really--even me who is unlovable, God has great plans for? Finally, I was excited. I thought maybe I knew God and accepted Christ, but I realized no, I didn't. I wanted to but I didn't because I didn't forgive myself. Finally, a few chapters later, the author was addressing those very feelings, writing about how they had hurt someone in their life and felt like God would never accept them, never forgive them, never love them. But then the author had this realization that Christ already did accept them, forgave them, and loved them and it was just that they had to forgive him/herself. There it was--my very question. And, in the midst of many sobs, I prayed that God would make a place for me in Heaven, that Christ would forgive me, and that I trusted myself now as His child and that indeed Christ forgave me. And from that day on, I had changed. My anger, bitterness, doubts, and feelings of unimportance all left. I began to love again...even when it was really hard. And slowly, Christ began working in my heart helping to heal the years of pain, so that I could be effective in loving others and reflecting His love.

Now, through the years, I have had some amazing answers to prayers...things I prayed as a young person, being answered years later...even my silly crazy prayers that really were just such silly requests, like "God if I am meant to sing, please let me one day have dinner with the Newsboys." Now, the Newsboys are a Christian rock band that I thought was the best thing ever when I was young. Funny thing, I think it was 10 years after I prayed that that there I was one day having dinner with the Newsboys! I think God did this to humor me but also show me that He had been listening to my heart all along--even when I wasn't even a Christian. But, through the years too, there have been more significant prayers that He has answered in His perfect timing and they have grown my faith and helped me to put all my trust in Him. I have learned that His hands are best and that we cannot fall out of His hands, ever. Because He was my rock through a very challenging childhood, He has grown my faith strong and it is solid. I know whatever comes to me in life, He will be my firm foundation. And, indeed He has been.

Let me tell you, when I was 16, I prayed that God would take me anywhere He wanted me to go in the World and that He would use me as His vessel. Since I prayed that prayer, He has certainly remembered my words and taken me up on it! Sometimes, I have been reluctant to follow. This, I think, is what began my journey to Africa. It was also the beginning of a journey that took me to California and to China, but for sake of time and brevity, I will stick to speaking about Africa only.

Now, when I was growing up, I had always wanted to be a missionary. And, I had always had this fascination with Africa. I don't know if it was because the animals are what initially drew me or what...but my junior year in college, my professor showed us a brief film he had made when he was in Africa on a missions trip. He was in a church and people were singing in their native language. Something struck my heart and I was just sitting there in class sobbing. I knew God was calling me to Africa.

After college, I graduated and moved to California to work at a Children's Home with children that had been abused and neglected. I had a special place for these children as many of them dealt with similar anger issues that I too dealt with growing up. What I didn't know when I accepted the position as Residential Counselor, was that many of these children were HIV+. I think had I known that going into the job, it would have scared me and I would have been saying, no thank you--not for me! But, when I did find out about it, I was okay with it. I knew that the risks were very minimal and it was very unlikely that it would even be a concern. So, this time I began opening my life and heart to those who were affected by HIV. You knew what children were because they had to get their blood drawn every month to check their T-cell count. In our house, at any given time, there were about 30% infected. I wasn't afraid. I loved the children as if they were my own, and leaving that job was about the hardest thing I've done in my life so far.

After working there for close to two years, I moved back to Michigan and began looking for a new job. It was a 6 month procedure! In the middle of that time, I watched a documentary on Africa and the faces of the starving children got me. One little child had a tear rolling down his cheek and I thought to myself--my gosh, I have never been in a position of having no food, and being that desperate. Tears, I think, are a universal language. We can all identify with pain. This little child's tear really got me and I felt like God was beginning to stir something deep within my Spirit. I began praying that He would put in my heart a vision and purpose for my life. I would pray and listen and pray, and I would strain for an answer but never hear anything. Finally, one night, He spoke...two words...AIDS and Africa...well, three words, AIDS, Africa, and Zimbabwe. Then I got this glimpse of myself going all over Africa helping to start these community development projects, feeding people, teaching new skills, creating schools, working with orphans and the sick.

Well, eventually, I became employed at Habitat for Humanity. I learned a lot being there, was involved at my church in HIV and AIDS outreach, and began becoming involved as an AIDS activist in my community, helping the community to recognize that it was affected by AIDS. But, even though I was busy and involved and was doing a lot, there was this ache to be in Africa...and I slowly started realizing that was where I needed to be. I just didn't know how that was going to happen and began praying for God to direct my steps and connect the dots. He did. I passed up an opportunity to go on a short-term mission trip to Rwanda in 2005 even though I desperately wanted to go. I just felt like it wasn't right. Immediately after I called my church and told them I would not be going, I felt God say that I was to begin my work in South Africa. I did not know at the time that my church was becoming involved in work in South Africa. A year later, the opportunity to go to South Africa became a reality and I found myself on a plane with a team of 8 heading to Johannesburg for 2 weeks. Now, I should add, that there were 2 teams forming...one to go to Johannesburg for 2 weeks in October 2006, and one to go to Cape Town in February 2007 for 2 weeks. I told myself, I would only go on one trip because that was all I could get off for vacation time, that I did not want to jeopardize my job, and that it financially would just be best. So, I went to Johannesburg to learn about community development work, about the cultures, about Apartheid and its fragments that still remain very real in people's lives today, and to see if there was any way I could be part of bringing hope. It was unfortunate because our team left Africa and I did not feel that we had accomplished the goals that were identified prior to our departure. But God had been busy in my heart.

We got back, and I felt like God was pursuing me to go to Cape Town in February. I thought to myself, there is no way I can go. I don't have the finances, my donors just contributed for me to go in October--it's only been less than 1 month, and I cannot ask them again. I nearly dismissed it, but the pursuit was growing...He was pursuing me to pursue going. So, I began the conversation with my church. And, what a blessing--my team stepped up, affirming that they really had strong feelings that I was also to be part of their team. Many of them contributed their own funds raised so that I could go! So I did. And, God made it clear why I was there. A few days into the trip, we sat down with the founding couple of one of the community development organization's and our team leader asked Pastor Thomas what his greatest 2 needs were. John stated, 1) a grant writer and 2) more funding. He then stated that he was heading to the States in 1 week to find a grant writer, at which time, our leader asked, "why would you do that, when we have brought one to you." That began a conversation that came to fruition in April 2008 when I finally got back to Africa.

Looking back on my life, I just see and am even more in awe, of how God has always been there. He's always been working and preparing me for the next steps, and even in the midst of the hard times, I can rest in Him. I'm so blessed by that.

Thank you Father.

So all my restlessness and squirming whilst waiting for decisions to be made is over...not because decisions are finally made but rather because God has given me new perspective and wisdom. I am amongst the counsel of great people who are wise and full of integrity and truth. Although it may be difficult to wait for answers, I can rest knowing that their intentions are good and they have my best interest at heart. I can rest knowing God is in control and it is going to happen His way. I can submit my will to His knowing it is good and perfect and the best. I can fully trust Him and His timing. Maybe I was too wrapped up in my own timing and anxious desire to get back to Africa and was trying to run ahead of God. I am thankful that His ways are perfect and that all I need to do is surrender and trust Him and rest fully in Him. Yes, there is still an overwhelming passion to get back, and that will keep me focused on pursuing the calling on my life, but in the meantime, I am to focus all my energy on being right where I am in the present and doing what I can to the best of my abilities. I am so thankful that this perspective has come so that I don't have to be so restless or divided and can concentrate with all my being on what is before me right now. I think that is the most important--being obedient in the day-to-day.

Speaking of that...I almost lost myself this weekend. I was really thinking about my growing restlessness and attributed it to my searching for home...not knowing where I was to be and when and yearning to settle down. That propelled me in this sporadic search for a home of my own. My thinking was perhaps a little fuzzy but at the time seemed quite logical. So, I got my pre-approval for a mortgage and set out house hunting. I stumbled across an amazing HUD home that had been foreclosed and it was immaculate inside, not to mention my monthly mortgage payment would have been only around $400 so with a couple roommates, would have yielded a wise investment. But, in the back of my head I had this lingering question of why was I out-and-about house hunting when I know I wouldn't be living for very long in the house but would be heading back to Africa. I thought to myself, "I'm not in Africa now, so while I am here, I should buy a house, after all, I am almost 30 and should have a house of my own." Desires for the house continued. On Saturday I made the arrangement with a Realtor to show my family the house on Sunday.

Now, it just about always happens that whatever church I end up at on Sundays, something hits me square in the head. Particularly this Sunday. I was going to attend Mars Hill, but decided instead to go to Res Life. The sermon could not have been more poignant. The message was on Dreaming God's Dreams. Pastor Duane spoke about how God puts dreams in our hearts and lives and referenced back to some of the people in the Bible. Oftentimes their dreams did not occur for many many years later...like Nehemiah. Nehemiah prayed that the walls would be restored and that God would send someone to rebuild them. It was him. Incidentally, Nehemiah was prepared. He was in the right position (cup bearer) to call for help from Kings of foreign lands who would help furnish the materials needed, he was in the position to request letters needed to cross through lands without paying taxes or tolls (in modern day language :) and he had a particular time frame in which he would be working. He was ready. Then Pastor Duane spoke about how when you are called to something and when God gives you a dream you either decide to pursue it or you don't. It's not you decide but keep dipping your toe into other pursuits...he gave the illustration of his courting of his wife Jeanie. He said when he decided to pursue Jeanie, he had to make the decision that Beth, Betty, Jane, and Sarah were no longer in the picture. Good, clear illustration of cutting off the things that hinder! For me it was the pursuit of the house. Not to say, I can never get a house here...but right now, as I am waiting for decisions to be made about my future, I need to be in a place of being ready. If work said they would like me to come back and be there for a while, I want to be in the place of being able to move, unencumbered by any obstacles. I knew I shouldn't go look at the house, but I still did and it took me down many a rabbit trail and being extremely overwhelmed and exhausted, and I wasted the whole day looking at houses that I didn't need. I am so thankful that God spoke, that he protected me from possible financial transactions, and that I am back at the place of just resting content in Him. I am thankful He continues to keep my focus sharp on the calling by continuing to speak into my life and drive my passions back to Africa.

It also made me think about other things I need to separate from in my life...none of them are bad...but I am realizing that there may be particular relationships, or rather the singular form, that need to come to an end in order to be fair to and just in pursuing the calling, and for the other person. If I already know where I am heading, then I do not selfishly want to continue a relationship that I know would not continue if I were there. Yet, it's hard and I keep telling myself that I'm not there yet...and what if the relationship is the right blessing God wants to give me and I am refusing to accept it. But inside there is this other sense that I just know it will be impossible to continue if I am there and I don't think it's fair to continue that...so I will soon have to do what is often very hard for me.

I am also reminded that I need to start getting the "plans" on paper and to begin putting into place the actions I need to take and when to make steps towards getting back to Africa. I think that is why I am to continue now in the States. To secure the funding and the skills, and the networks needed to get these dreams to start taking shape.

I am also beginning to realize that I may not head back to South Africa long-term. I feel I may be heading straight to Zimbabwe. It scares me a little knowing all that is happening there and that several individuals have stated they would not advise me to set foot there anytime soon. I want to heed their cautions and warnings, but at the same time, I know that is where God has called me. I am reminded of the words that came instructing me to go there. Just yesterday I read a write up in the paper about the food scarcity in Zim and was reminded of when God questioned me, asking, "Will you feed my sheep?" I am reminded of the connection now to Farming God's Way and I am aware that that is for a purpose. I need to reconnect with them. I am reminded that we are never more safe than when we are in the center of God's will. I trust that He will protect me wherever I go and that I shouldn't be afraid. Perhaps most important now is seeking out those who will be praying for me as I prepare to go.

So, here I am finding myself all sorted out. I have goals to work towards while I am here which will help me eventually get back to Africa. I have made the choice to pursue the calling at whatever cost and whatever I am to give up or let go of. Now it is just stepping one step at a time, not running on ahead, praying for wisdom and discernment, and preparing for whatever is before me.

On a separate note, for some seven years now, I have been praying for a partner in ministry...in my little ideal situation, that partner would be a spouse. But you know what, during my time in South Africa, and after, I have realized that I have already had the partner in ministry that I have been longing for all along. I have Jesus as my guide, leading and clearing the way, and He will bring people into my life who will help me as I journey. I am really blessed. I just need to continue to rest in Him because He is really all I need. And so, I am content in all my circumstances at the present moment in time. I have peace. I have rest. I have goals and plans and dreams. I have the best guide and helper ever and that is all I need. Thank you Father.

so hard to be so far away from where my heart desires to be

I just want to keep it real. But plenty of tears come today. I'm really struggling with what I am to do. I am in a position in my work to make such a difference and seek the financial support to help the organization do its work on the ground...the ripple effect I must remember...yet there is this ache to be in the communities I have come to love and grown to miss. I don't know how to reconcile those two things. The inner struggle is becoming my own torture as I try to keep myself going here...but the struggle is intensifying. Maybe I just need to be patient and keep holding on and trust His timing. I wonder why this eagerness to get there now is building so strongly the last couple months...maybe its just cause I've been away for a long while. Or, is it an indication I am to just go now? I can't possibly see how I can do that when I am in my position here. I'm sure God will work this all out in His perfect timing, I'm just finding it hard to rest when my soul desires to be somewhere other than it is right now.

Oh mercy, it's gonna be a long ride.

The daydreaming continues...

I keep having to remind myself of the ripple effects of my work here. So often I wish I were there--but there is purpose in sitting behind my desk endlessly writing away. I just need to keep telling myself that.

Well, I sat down a few nights ago and typed out the most honest message I could to both my supervisors letting them know that I feel the Lord is and has been pursuing me to return back to South Africa and acknowledging that we need to work towards that. I do feel they will want me in the US a bit longer, so will wait to hear from them.

I forgot to mention I had a run-in meeting last week with Dr. George Ayittey an Ghanain economist who is widely-recognized Worldwide for his voice on what solutions for Africa look like. He is the author of Africa Unchained, a book that was really helpful to me. He affirms African solutions for African problems which I could not agree with more. Usually I am shy around these sorts of people, but seriously only through the grace of God who gave me great boldness, did I march myself right up to him, tell him what some of my ideas were, and ask if I could have his contact information so I could bounce some ideas off him and potentially sometime down the road ask him to be a board member :) That's exactly what I did and so I will contact him and keep the discussion going.

In the meantime, I need to start getting my ideas down concretely on paper. I have passions to work with youth doing fitness and nutrition programs, and character-building sports conferences/camps that will also serve as discipleship mechanisms and HIV prevention tools. This stems out of my love for running and doing triathlons and a run-in with an IRONMAN triathlete from one of the townships in South Africa in 2008.

Then there is also a dream to work with communities building skills and trading systems. I think they would be a bit similar to Millennium Villages but without the dependence on outside aid. God has pointed me to Zimbabwe with this vision long ago, so one step at a time I will get there, as long as I keep walking that out. I think my time with Farming God's Way, short as it was in 2008, will be a key part of this work. I just have a feeling that that relationship was cultivated for a larger purpose.

So, those are some of the dreams God planted in me--years ago. Sometimes I feel like they are impossible to carry out, but I believe God put them in me and that He has given me a love for Africa that will keep me focused even while I am away. That certainly has been the case so far. And I'm thankful He will do exactly as He desires to accomplish if I remain an open vessel for Him to move through. These dreams are not mine, but His, and I have finally reached the point of being broken of myself and poured out for Him. I'm beginning to grasp that I will be in Africa for a long, long time. Its just something I feel at the core of my soul. I know I still have a choice and there is plenty I could involve myself in here in the States, and God would love me the same. His love doesn't change no matter what we do or don't do. It is constant and cannot be earned. But there is a joy in me to keep walking out the vision He put in my heart...whatever that means...So step by step it is. My prayer is Paul's prayer that I would become less that He may become more and that in my temporary life He may be glorified and use me as He so desires.

In the waiting room and finding it difficult to wait...

Rewind...back to the end of November. I was beginning to realize that it would be valuable and important to get back to South Africa and spend some time with the organization I am working for. It's been a while since I've spent time with them and there have been a number of changes. Apart from the information gathering that would be helpful to me to continue in my current role I really wanted deeply to connect with everyone again. It's hard to be hundreds of miles away and writing like a busy bee all the proposals I am, without having people around who are also passionate about that work...no one to talk to (besides on skype). So I sit at my computer desk day in and day out, writing, writing, writing, sometimes making phone calls, but usually writing. I was so excited so I asked if I could come and work from there for a little while. No response. I asked again. No response.

Finally, about 1.5 months passes and I ask again. This time the answer is different--it is not as I expected--"the sure, it would be good to have you here" that I was hoping for, but to keep waiting.

I'm a bit disappointed...well, let's be honest, more than a bit. I tried to convey how important I thought it would be for me to spend time back at the organization, but nope. I'm sure there is good reason for the decision that was made. In some ways it is reiterating to me a growing angst...that maybe what I am supposed to do requires some separation from an organization and me stepping out more on my own. It's hard to do that completely being a stranger to the land, having a different skin color, and speaking a different language. Yet, I am slowly realizing that I think I need to abide in His grace and step out in faith.

There is also something else I keep thinking about. When in South Africa a while back, I felt God was saying to me to "stand by (a certain person's) side and support (this person) in all that they do." That is a pretty clear directive and perhaps the very clarity I had been praying for. I wrestle with knowing what that means and looks like and have a desire to obey. I guess in time, it would begin to become more clear. I wonder if I should say something to this person? Hmmm...

So, I am beginning to realize that it's time for another conversation to happen...this time regarding moving closer to what I feel God is calling me to. I'm not sure how that will go over when there has not been a great deal of understanding up to this point, but all I can do is be honest with where I am at and live by my convictions to do what is right no matter what the repercussions are. I know I need to be obedient to Christ and that is my desire.

So, here's to having the conversation and all it's repercussions. I am so thankful that the Lord is in control. When we are faithful, He is faithful. When we are not faithful, He remains faithful still. Such great love...

Another year forward

Wowza...been a while since I've posted something on here. I've been home for over a year now. I thought about it for a while a little while ago. When I first boarded the plane two Decembers ago to return home, there was no question in my mind that I would be home for a month and then immediately return back to South Africa to continue my role fund raising. But, as I was home I began to realize that my job would be easier and work more ideally from the US than from South Africa, granted there were pros and cons working in either place.

As I look back on it now, I was right. I accomplished a lot more being in the States than I may have accomplished being in South Africa. And, God used the time I've been away to help me recognize how much I want to be back. Only, this time, it's not me wanting to go because I ought to, but because I want to...that is the compelling emotion in my heart. But I don't know what that looks like at the moment. I'm praying that doors that were once open will reopen again. That although things don't look clear right now, that they soon will become clear.

I wonder if God is asking me to make a decision and step out in faith towards it? I particularly wonder this as I am in an interesting and complex situation at the moment that has my hands tied. I don't have permission to move forward until I hear back from my current employer about the status of my position, but it has been an overwhelmingly long time that I've been waiting for decisions to be made. I've been a bit inpatient, and have tried for perhaps the last time, today to find the clarification I have been seeking. I hope to hear something soon.

A good friend told me when I was in South Africa in 2008, that the closer we get to following God's plan for our lives the more it will require us to give up and let go of things that hinder us...those words were so wise and I think back on them quite often. I think I know what that looks like for me now and it is just a matter of doing it...letting go of those things.

I am still reminded of the words that came to me while in South Africa...pointing me to Zimbabwe. I'm hoping that may happen soon.

Well, back in the waiting room...

The promises of God...

I dissected the corridors of my heart. I find what's been there all along, this fragile little hope that clings tightly to God in the midst of a world around me that in the past few months has seemed to come apart...this little girl inside me who carries her basket, her offering, seeking to do the wild desires of my heart the dreams I've been chasing for so long but struggling at times to find the way. I'm taunted by the voices around me.

Let me just say that last week I had to make my decision as to staying "indefinitely" for a time here or returning home. I struggled with the two passions of my heart and bringing them both before the Lord and offering them up. I called a wise woman who spoke the truth boldly to me in the midst of my need. Her words turned me back to my One True Love.

And I knew in my heart that staying, although it means not seeing family for a while, is what I need to do to keep walking out this journey. No doubt in my mind that I could turn around and go right back home and God would still smile upon me and bless me. He knows I'll serve Him wherever I am. But there is this tenacious drive in me that yearns to see how God redeems the past few months of pain and loss. And I know if I turn around I will be walking away from seeing what is up ahead in the journey. So, I remain this little vessel, offering all of what I can, which is just lil ole me.

So I said "yes" to staying which means I won't be coming home till December, I think.

But then there are the voices that taunt my spirit so.

The voice of the one who a couple months ago told me that I wasn't the "right volunteer" for this position because if it was God's will my support money would have come in much more quickly. I often doubt myself, second quess myself alot, and this statement almost made me retreat. Was I never to come in the first place? was the question I kept asking. It took a lot to heal after those words were said. I've been yearning to see how God redeems it.

But then something else this past week. How in the ups and downs of all that has happened and how "the plan" I originally agreed to has been changing so much, that this may distort the character of God, who is not One who calls us to chase after Him as He changes things on us unexpectedly. That's true, so how do I make sense of all the changes? Now I'm confused...but not entirely. It makes sense to me. I knew before I came God was preparing me for something big and something new in my life--that He was going to do something huge. I knew when I purchased my airfare that although the return date was July 21st, I wouldn't be returning then. I knew before I left that the relationship that had been so important to me for so long was going to come to an end. I knew I was going to have to decide between pursuing God, or pursuing the relationship. I knew when I applied for my Visa extension and chose a date in October, that that wasn't the right timing either.

But still, it's the words again that suddenly make me doubt everything. Something beautiful I cling to...

I was awakened Sunday in the middle of the night by a voice that said to me, "Go to Zimbabwe."

Random, totally random.

But I think it was God's way of reminding me that He does have me on a journey. I have known that South Africa was my starting place all along and Zimbabwe my ending place. It was as if, the night before the day I had to give my decision, God was reminding me that there was a "promise land" He has been taking me to all along.

I remember every time I've doubted myself, every time I've been fearful of hoping, every time I've been afraid that God has something good up ahead, every time I've felt inadequate, I have looked out to see a rainbow. They've only lasted a couple minutes each time, but interestingly they've been there just when I glanced up and always directly ahead of me. A very clear reminder to me that He is faithful and that His promises are true.

So I cling to those reminders and keep walking. I do need prayer though, especially now. I was so excited to keep walking but now struggle with wondering again if I'm supposed to be here given all that's been said to me. I need to keep my eyes and heart focused on Him, my ears attentive to His voice but it is hard when I've been hearing so many other things from people who I respect and find quite wise.

Please pray for me, for discernment and that I will know the way forward.


(Thanks Mara and Michelle for taking good care of my Mom. That is a HUGE blessing to me. I miss her very much and appreciate you two reaching out to her and seeing that she gets well. Thanks for your prayers and love and for being the Body so well.)